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A Letter to the Tired Children’s Ministry Leader

February 9, 2018 — 9 Comments

As Children’s Ministry leaders, we have all lived in seasons of hard ministry. We have faced the temptation to call it quits and move on. I’ve been in those seasons before, and this is my attempt to offer encouragement and words that you can come back to whenever needed.

Dear Tired, Undervalued, About-to-Burnout Children’s Ministry Leader,

I see your tired mind and weary body. You love what you are called to do, but you’re not sure how much longer you can make it. There are nights when you can’t sleep and mornings when you don’t want to wake up. You work yourself to the bone as if eternity depended on it. And while the results are not up to you, eternity really is our focus. The weight of such a calling is heavy. It has made you tired and weary. You need to hear these words:

Do not give up. 

In your weariness, remember that wondrous God is using you to introduce Himself to wide-eyed children who desperately need to know Him. In your moments of feeling under appreciated, remember that every conversation with a child is a chance for the Holy Spirit reach their heart and transform their eternity. You are making a difference and God is using you to fulfill His good purpose. (Philippians 2:13)

It might feel like no one understands or cares, but don’t give into that lie. Your church needs you to continue pouring into children and families. They may not see all that it takes or understand the sacrifices that you make. Your struggles to find volunteers and get support may feel like failures, but you must keep going. You are providing opportunities for others to be involved in everything God is doing to raise up a new generation who will love and serve Him.

Do not give up.

In His sovereignty, God could have placed anyone in this role, and He chose you. He chose you because you are made for this role. While He has certainly gifted you for this role, your abilities will never be enough. But His grace and power are enough. Find rest in what Jesus has done for you and who the Gospel proclaims you to be. Find strength in the God who has made and cares deeply for all things—including the kids in your ministry and you. Find hope in His promise that His word—faithfully taught in your ministry—will not return empty.

I’m sorry that you are tired and undervalued. I know that Satan has undoubtedly used those feelings to make you feel like throwing in the towel. If I could put a voice to what I think God might be saying at this very moment, I would simply say:

Do not give up.

If you are enduring a hard season and need prayer, please leave your name in the comments or contact me. I want to spend this month praying for you and your ministry.

9 responses to A Letter to the Tired Children’s Ministry Leader

  1. Would love your prayers. Struggling to balance home, marriage,
    family, church, etc….3 boys ages 9,12, and 14….busy, busy.

  2. Thank you for this letter! It was very encouraging. Please pray for the children’s ministry at my church.

  3. Thank You!

  4. Shelley Nickels February 9, 2018 at 5:09 pm

    I would appreciate your prayers greatly. I have had. 21/2 years battle that is about to get the best of me. I can not speak of it because I promised my new Pastor I would not. I’ve been in kids ministry for over 38 years and I’ve never been so hurt or discouraged. My name is Shelley. I’m 62 years old. I’ve been at my present church for 20 years and been in this position of children’s minister 10 years. Thank you so much. Please pray that I can find food wise council

  5. Hi. Thank you for posting this. As I read it, it felt like refreshing drops rained down on me as I recognised the truth of the words. I am weary and worn, even battle scar-ed! I will read those words again and again and again, and let the truths sink in. He chose me to show who He is to precious little people. In amongst everything else that clamours for my attention, let me not forget the wonder of that. Kerry

  6. Prayers are greatly appreciated! I’ve been at the end of my rope for a month or two. Balancing ministry, work, grad school, family, my home, etc… It’s stressful and it’s taking a toll.

  7. Thank you for such a wonderful letter. Very timely. Prayers are greatly appreciated. It’s hard for me to find the right balance between ministry, marriage, family, homeschooling, etc.

  8. Thank you! Please pray for me and my church. We’re dealing with a lot of serious behavior problems. These are are facing so much at home.

  9. Thank you so much! Would appreciate prayers that more volunteers step up to help and can discover the joy of being a part of children’s ministry. Thank you for your prayers

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