2014 FourFiveSix Conference

August 26, 2013 — 1 Comment

conference_header-600x188The biggest lesson I’ve learned in the last 2 years of Preteen Ministry is that I am most effective when I partner with other preteen leaders to share ideas and stories. The FourFiveSix Conference on April 7-9, 2014 is all about helping you make those partnerships.

The conference is 3 days worth of fun and sharing with other preteen leaders. The conference is the perfect size for you to ask questions, get one-on-one time with presenters, and talk curriculum with the creators of some great preteen ministry resources like SuperStart! and PreteenMinistry.net.

Here are a few reasons why I think you should register now for the 2014 FourFiveSix Conference:

1. It’s a great place to start or to renew vision for Preteen Ministry

If your church does not have a preteen ministry, what are you waiting for?? When I got a job as Preteen Pastor, FourFiveSix was my first place to go for ideas on how to launch and manage a preteen ministry. Two years later, FourFiveSix consistently re-energizes me to keep dreaming of what God can do through Preteen Ministry. Whether you’re new or a veteran, FourFiveSix Conference will give you fuel for the way you serve preteens.

2. It’s helpful for every ministry—regardless of location or size

Some conferences can be so specific that they aren’t applicable to all ministries. The FourFiveSix Conference does a great job of presenting ideas that work in multiple contexts. The conference is the perfect size for you to ask questions, get one-on-one time with presenters, and talk curriculum with the creators of some great preteen ministry resources like SuperStart! and PreteenMinistry.net. The loads of ideas, resources, and relationships that you takeaway makes the FourFiveSix Conference a super deal–only $137…and that includes 3 meals!

3. It makes you a part of the largest network of preteen ministry leaders in the world!

At the FourFiveSix conference, you’ll form relationships with other preteen ministry leaders that last far beyond the 3-day conference. When ministry is tough or you need support, you’ll have hundreds of other leaders that are just an email or phone call away. The FourFiveSix Conference is the place to find a family where you belong.

The FourFiveSix crew is already working on providing another stellar experience, and you do not want to miss it. Run on over to FourFiveSix.org and register your team for the 2014 FourFiveSix Conference.

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What is Worship?

July 17, 2013 — 1 Comment


It’s been a busy summer of ministry, family and planning. I’m really excited about the direction God is leading our curriculum for preteens this year. After we spend a few weeks getting acquainted and explaining the important of our small group community, we’re planning to launch a series on worship. The goal is to help preteens discover what worship is and what it is not. We want them to find news ways to worship and really embrace it has a lifestyle instead of a Sunday morning event.

One of the things that we’re going to wrestle with in this series is: What is Worship? I’ve heard some great definitions and examples for worship, but I’d like to know how would you define worship?

When you have a free moment, please leave a comment that answers these questions:

1) How would you define worship?

2) What are some ways you worship?

3) What most inspires you to worship?

Your answers will help us to form a definition of worship that will help our preteens understand it more clearly. We may even use some of the answers in a lesson to show the wide range of responses that I’m sure we’ll get. If you don’t wish to leave a comment, you can email me or connect on Facebook & Twitter.


When I woke up this morning, I had a flood of memories from this day 8 years ago. When I woke up on June 4, 2005, I was getting ready to marry my best friend, Dana. As excited as I was, I had no idea what the next 8 years would look like.

I had some great ideas of what our marriage would be, but the tough spots have been tougher than I expected and the great parts have been far greater than I ever imagined. I can honestly say that I married my best friend, and every moment has been incredible.

I love everything about my wife. I know I’m biased, but I would say she’s the perfect wife. In honor of our 8-year anniversary, here are the Top 8 things I love about my wife, Dana.

I Love…

1. Her Smile

Even on the crummiest days, everything seems better when I see Dana smile. I do some pretty stupid stuff and make a fool of myself on a regular basis just to try to make her smile. I love seeing her smile because it makes me smile!

2. Her Kisses

Neither of us are really “affectionate” or PDA-style people. We always try to respond to one another while juggling the busyness of life, but it’s hard. I love that my wife knows when I need her kisses the most. When I’m super stressed or feeling down, she can change my day with her kiss. I love that she knows just the right time to lay one on me!

3. Her Mom Skillz

Any father should really appreciate his wife’s Mom Skillz. (Yes, I just spelled that with a “z.”) If you don’t, take a day to fill in for her and you certainly will. I honestly don’t know how she does it, and I definitely don’t show her enough appreciate for it. She balances life for me and our daughters, and she is the glue that hold everything together

4. Her Faith in Me

In the past 8 years, we’ve been on a roller coaster. We’ve changed jobs and made moves that really took us out of our comfort zone. She’s a planner that likes to know everything that is going to happen, but she has faithfully stuck with me on a crazy ride. In each step, she has had faith in me and trusted me. Even in times when I doubted myself, she kept having faith in me.

5. Her Faith in God

I admire my wife’s faith in God. A big reason that she can follow me into hairy situations is because she has tremendous faith in God. She’s reading this and saying that she doesn’t have faith, but her actions have always spoken otherwise. She has always been an example for me in how to trust God and follow His lead.

6. The Way She Loves Others

You really should be friends with my wife. She loves her friends so much. I love watching her talk with them and spend time with them. She’ll tell you that she’s naturally shy and doesn’t have many friends, but I’ve seen her invest in the people around her and really love them well.

7. Her Value of Family Time

My wife values times together as a family, so she makes it happen. I can count on one hand the number of times we’ve eaten dinner in front of a TV! I really appreciate the way my wife values our family and creates quality time for us–as crazy and hard as it may be!

8. That She’s My Best Friend

The greatest reason that I love my wife is because she’s my best friend. There is no one in the world that knows as much about my failures and insecurities than her. She has seen the good, the bad, and the very ugly sides of me. Through all of that, she’s chosen to still love me. There’s no value that I can put on her friendship and the impact it’s had on my life. I’m so thankful that I get to spend my life with my very best friend.

Dana, I love you and I always will.

Anniversary Collage


Have you ever wondered what would happen if you let preteens take over your service? What if you gave them an “open mic”?

This month, we’ve been focusing on the Gospel and our need. We gave preteens a glimpse of the world’s need for Jesus by highlighting that there are estimated 2.88 billion people who are “unreached,” which means they’ve not heard the Gospel. On a closer level, there are 259 million people in North America that do not have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ.  We even broke it down to our city and community to see the great need for the Gospel.

The following week, we focused on the power of our personal testimonies to share the Gospel. We led preteens to talk through and write their faith story. It was a great opportunity to share the Gospel with some of our students who were struggling to write. It was also a great chance to hear our students personalize their faith and start sharing.

This past Sunday, we invited preteens to pick up the “open mic” and share their faith story with their peers. We had some back-up plans to fill the time in case no one responded, but we actually had to cut them off!

Here are some of the stories that we heard during the testimony time:

  • 6th Grade boy told about an opportunity he had to share about Jesus with a classmate. The teacher overheard and called his parents to “brag” about his boldness.
  • 6th Grade boy shared his testimony and how he walked through the decision with his dad. His quote, “If someone asked me why they should trust in Jesus, I would read Romans 3:23. You just can’t argue with that!”
  • 5th Grade girl shared about a friend that had been asking questions about the Bible and Jesus. She told about the conversations they were getting to have together.
  • 6th Grade girl shared her testimony that came through conversations with her mom. She said, “My dad is a Hindu. My mom and I are Christians.” She and her mother have taken a huge step to trust in Jesus, and they continue to share Jesus with the dad.
  • 6th Grade girl shared about an abusive situation in her family, and how the love she felt from others in that situation led her to trust in Christ.
  • 5th Grade girl shared her testimony and how Jesus had brought so much joy into her life.

At the end of the share time,we were speechless and many of us had tears. It was amazing to see preteens sharing about what God is doing in them and around them. We will definitely plan a service like this again soon!

What would happen if you gave preteens an open mic?