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As a preparation for Good Friday and Easter, you need to read The Weeping Chamber by Sigmund Brouwer.

The Weeping Chamber is a novel that sets the story of Jesus’ last days into a very personal context. The story is told from the view of Simeon of Cyrene. He is in a deep despair over his sin, and he has left his family with no intent to return. At the same time, Jesus is making his way into Jerusalem for the Passover and His final week. It is amazing to watch as these two men travel toward a head-on collision that happens on the road to Golgotha.

Brouwer is able to tell a fictitious story that deals with personal guilt, while also telling a very Biblically accurate account of Jesus’ final week as a man. It is a great historical look at the events of Passover and the sacrifice of Jesus Christ, but the uniqueness of the book is how this is told through the lens of a broken man.

This book was handed to me a number of years ago, and it has been a staple of this week for me ever since. Even after reading it for what seems like the millionth time, the book always becomes personal. As I put myself in the shoes of Simeon, I come face to face with the redemption that is available through Jesus Christ.

I love my church and I love my job. Here is just another example of why:

Our ministry team spent the morning studying the results from a study we did called Your Unique Design. The study maps out 6 parts to personality and how they interact with each other. Every individual has all 6 parts, but we also have a foundational part that will dominate our behavior.

After understanding our own makeup, it is amazing to learn how to use the knowledge to better communicate with one another.  For example, I found that the majority of our team members, including my boss, were “Harmonizers,” which meant they operate based on emotions/feelings. I do not primarily operate from that foundation, so the study taught me some great tips on how I can better communicate with them based on our differences. The study states how we react under stress, how we receive and dispense information, and it even gives a guide to the particular daily activities that will energize us.

Great leadership is defined by knowing who it is you’re leading.

Sure, you need to have vision and strategy, but that is all hollow if you don’t know how to effectively communicate it with the people you’re leading. This is why it is critical that we understand the personalities that exist under our leadership.

Knowing the people who follow your leadership is important because…

  • it dictates the way you communicate with them.
  • you can better predict how they will react in stressful settings.
  • you will know how to better handle conflict between individuals based on personality
  • you will know how to encourage them based on their foundational personality
  • you will know how to correct them based on their foundational personality
  • you will hire/recruit the right person for the right job
  • you understand who God has wired them to be as part of the Body

Go check out the Servants by Design Inventory to find out how your team can use this valuable resource!
Later this week, I’ll be sharing how this same study can be used to better understand the kids that you’re raising at home or leading in ministry!

D6 Conference: Day 1

September 23, 2011 — Leave a comment

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Thursday was actually conference “day 1” at D6 and it opened with a session that included Doug Fields and David Platt—talk about a wake up call!  The rest of the day was FULL of absolutely amazing speakers like Dannah Gresh, Emmerson Eggerichs, Tim Kimmel, John McGee, and probably some others that I missed. But the first two really caught my heart and had me thinking the rest of the day.

Doug Fields’ message challenged us in our frustration and exhaustion of ministry to renew our love for Jesus Christ.  At the end of the day, this is what matters most and ultimately what will fuel our ministry efforts.  Doug challenged us to be leaders who…

  • Can authentically say, “Follow me, as I follow Jesus”—Is Jesus the most famous person in your church? In your ministry?
  • Value a collective vision—Humbly accept that we are better together than we are alone.
  • Are acutely aware of the “twisters” [issues, forces, conflicts] impacting families—Are we adding to the “twisters” that families face? Are we making suggestions from the pulpit that we’re not living out at home?

Next, David Platt spoke from the premise of his book Radical.  He posed the question, “How do we pour the Gospel into the next generation in a way that makes Christ’s glory known in all the world and in all generations?”  David spoke from Luke 9 on the three conversations Jesus had with those that wanted to follow him. He drew these challenging exhortations to parents from this passage of Scripture:

  • Teach children to treasure the person of Christ more than the possessions of this world
  • Tell children that God’s Kingdom is infinitely more important than their family
  • Train children to love the Lord enough to gladly leave their home behind

His talk boiled down to one statement on our purpose as parents.  The goal, as Platt describes it, is:

For our kids to love a Great God in a way that would lead them to abandon the things of this world, their family, and their home in order to follow Him!

This was challenging for me as a pastor, but even more so as a parent.  That’s not to say that I’m doing everything right as a pastor—far from it.  It just means that I’m not nearly the man, husband, or father that God has called me to be. I think I already knew that, but God has really pressed me over the last 24 hours and made me process that fact fully.

After much thought and evaluation, my take-away that I want to share with every other preteen ministry leader is this:

My legacy is not my ministry.  My legacy is my home.

God has called me into ministry, but I have a superseding call to be a man, husband, and father that follows hard after Christ. I know that I forsake my family to do ministry related tasks.  I change or cancel family plans all the time because of a ministry conflict, but I hardly ever put my family obligation before the ministry. This has to change…this will change.

 

Ps. The night was capped off with an acoustic session with Steven Curtis Chapman that was unbelievable.  He told the story of losing his daughter, Maria. The family went through so much pain and struggle, yet you can see them living in the midst of God’s sufficient grace. Everyone saw God’s grace and sovereignty in a new way as he sang, “You give and take away…my heart will choose to say, Lord, blessed be Your name.”

Sunday Celebrations

September 5, 2011 — Leave a comment

This was a rough week–hence no posts since last Sunday.

I woke up last Monday with the feeling that there was a dark cloud over me. I’m not sure what was going on, but I just felt attacked. And the week went similar to that feeling.  It was full of some very difficult decisions and conversations. I really overextended myself with work and that took a toll at home. And on top of all that–I got a traffic ticket for rolling through a stop sign!!  When it rains, it pours.

In the midst of all this, I found myself at peace. God is enough and He is teaching me to be satisfied with Him.  Sor for this Sunday, I’m just thankful for God.  I’m thankful that He is wonderful, all-knowing, loving, Holy, just, worthy…He is ENOUGH.